I love and hate that we are bringing up our children in Oakland. I love the diversity and business of living in a city. With our biracial children, I want them to be exposed to all sorts of cultures. In suburbia you won't see that as much.
On the flipside, the kids are constantly seeing gritty graffiti everywhere, from grocery store walls to the play structure at their playground. I sometimes crave the boring cleanliness of suburbia simply for the fact that you rarely see tagging on the playground. I just hope that one day, our boys will be the nerdy kids that shun the graffiti spraying kids in school, but who really knows?